It depends on who's the head of the family. For me, it's the mother. NOT the father. Father's always think they know best, but they don't—they know shit. The mother is where life comes from, and we should listen to her. The guy, the dad, the father, just waves his cock in the air, and says look at me, I'm the daddy! Don't know if sounds unconventional, but I wish I'd listened to my mother more and not my father!

Personally, once one reaches 18-20, I'm not sure of the benefit of a family. I trust my friends more than my family, and feel closer than I've ever done to my family. Naturally, that's my opinion.